Learning To Choose Love
— From The Wise Old Sage Commentaries
Love Is A CommitmentCommitment: 1. A pledge or promise to engage or produce some result 2. A quality… To Creative Response
We choose love by knowing ourselves, seeing clearly the similarities and differences of others, and realizing that we have a unique creative contribution to make. Love is a self-learning opportunity where we develop an appreciationAppreciation: 1. The acknowledgment of alignment in our intent with another 2. T… of our creative gifts and Higher AlignmentAlignment: 1. A condition of close cooperation or shared intention where compati… (click the word for the full definition) Compatibility FactorsCompatibility Factors: 1. a set of creative distinctions which highlight differe…. Radiant Self Unifying Love shifts us beyond personality choices where our safetySafety: 1. maintaining a state of well being in this moment 2. driving force of … attachments, securitySecurity: 1. maintaining a state of well being through time 2. a driving force o… positions, and self-important projections are used to cement unconsciousUnconscious: 1. a state driven by repressed fears and desires where we seek to a… relationships. We heal ourselves by exploring our creative gifts, discovering the mysteryMystery: 1. the process of participation without having to know or understand th… of our design and truth, and declaring our authentic purpose. By being our consciousConscious: 1. a state of presence that is aware of itself, self reflecting, and … Creative SelfCreative Self: 1. a state of Being of connection to the Universe where we natura…, we invite others to discover if we are on a mutual path of development.
When we do not know ourselves as conscious Creative Beings, we choose partners who counterbalance our self-perceived limitations. This leads to falling in loveFalling in Love: 1. the quality or state of being associated with Instinctive Lo… based on sexual, defensive, or comparative chemistry rather than the self-affirming possibility of creative chemistryCreative Chemistry: 1. the experience of enthusiasm when we are met consciously …. These personality-based relationships are driven by: 1) instinctiveInstinctive: 1. a non-reflective state of consciousness where we operate to guar… fears of isolation where we use excitementExcitement: 1. being agitated on a physical level due to the belief that some in… to get the attentionAttention: 1. The ability to focus ourselves in a way where we are Present with … of potential partners;
2) our attractions to opposite creativityCreativity: 1. a response to a situation where some new possibility can Transmut… and defenses manifesting intensity and competition, that ends in separation; and 3) even if we have some similarities, we find ourselves competing and comparing ourselves based on our relative goodness and or self-importance, leading to relationships with anxiety where we cannot rest. This indicates personality exchanges of needs for sex, power and idealized projections.
Finding and embracing the best in us, allows others to be uplifted in the same way, so we combine and amplify our primary creative gifts together.
Conscious Co-Creative relationships operate from abundant energy, time and space where we experienceExperience: 1. the apprehension and transformation of reality, circumstances, or… playfulnessPlayfulness: 1. a commitment to passionately engaging what is in front of us wit…, paradoxParadox: 1. a statement of two simultaneously conflicting truths that encourage …, and mutual learning. Instead of relationships being formed around attachments, positions and projections of dualistic attractions where we want our partnerPartner: 1. a person who takes part in some activity in common with another or o… to fill our gaps, we eliminate the fears, personalityFears, Personality: 1. a discounted or denied compromise that threatened our sur…personality desiresPersonality Desires: 1. based on distorted experiential frameworks (sensations, …, and need for self-importance that are the source of our conflicts. Radiant Self Unifying love is the result of non-dualistic experiences of creative wholeness and attraction. By uplifting our attractions to Autonomous AlivenessAliveness: 1. The capacity to engage others in a vibrant and awakened manner wit…, Intimate Vulnerability, and Creative Responsiveness, we recover our abundance and can choose engagement without compromise. The more we recognize the value of establishing boundariesBoundaries: 1. Becoming conscious of where you and others start 2. Developing a … regarding managing our energy, time and space, the more effectively we could operate in a state of Radiant Self Unifying Love without friction and in the creative flow.
Radiant Self Unifying Love focuses us on growing our ability to see and accept our creative nature. We learn to honor our intentIntent: 1. a reflection of will, either personal or Universal, that defines our … on the level of life by experimenting with what works for us. We release ourselves from parental conditioning and imprintingImprinting: 1. an acceptance mechanism used by infants and young children to ens… so we can develop our nature without internal conflictConflict: 1. a perception, either internal, external or both where different Mot…. This allows us not to take on the expectations of others and remain uncompromised in our interactions. This means both partners are responsible for their own autonomyAutonomy: 1. The fact or condition of being self-governed that allows us to sepa… and choices, and the job of our partner is not to take on our imbalances regarding sensations and feelings. The second compromise regards how we identify ourselves as masculineMasculine: 1. on a Gender Identity level, it reflects operating as a male 2. bey… or feminineFeminine: 1. on a Gender Identity level it refers to being female 2. on levels b…, preventing us from exploring our three creative intelligences. Everyone is some natural combination of masculine and feminine expression. The most fulfilling relationships occur when there is a commonality in our masculine and feminine intelligence expressions. In these relationships, we do not need to define ourselves in terms of who we are not (in comparison to our partner), because we are more empowered to focus on who we are as a creative beingCreative Being: 1. the unity of consciousness embodied as identification with ou….
The third compromise, which reflects the highest degree of loving ourselves, is not being able to identify our purpose or Authentic Life ExpressionAuthentic Life Expression [Aka Authentic Life Work] 1. A distinct creative contr…. By declaring a purpose, we re-organize our life. This purpose is a roadmap to others so that they can effectively support us. When we can share our perspectives around our life purpose and demonstrate how these contributions bring us happiness and joyJoy: 1. a state of well-being and wholeness that arises from a balanced apprecia…, it can give our partner confidence that what they are choosing is true or pure. Our Primary Creative Expression requires us to be operating in our three main Virtues, which are the best indicators of alignment in our ability to love one another. It is important to remember that we need to demonstrate our creative connections and manifest them in the world for a partner to be able to choose us as a conscious partner.Â
Creative Responsiveness is not a personality projectionProjection: 1. a defensive framework where we are unwilling to accept our own we..., but a heartfelt commitment to love another because of experiential alignment.
The leading indicators of Radiant Self Unifying Love are trustTrust: 1. faith or confidence in the honesty, integrity, reliability, justice, e…, unityUnity: 1. the state of being one, or united, oneness 2. something complete in it…, and generosity of spirit. When we bond with our partner on instinctive, intellectualIntellectual: 1. a dualistic framework where our positions reflect a partial vie…, and idealized levels, it transmutes, transforms, and transfigures us which creates a shift our consciousness. This occurs because we are able to unify our being with our relating and with our doing. Radiant Self Unifying Love occurs because we experience each other in terms of Life, Light, and Love energies. Radiant Self Unifying Love can also be discussed as a state of autonomy or integrity where we manage our energy, time and space, so we are naturally supportive to any environment. Trust, unity and generosity of spirit are part of our lives when we take care of ourselves and maintain a vibrant, creative response on all three levels. We not only make better choices and connect to others without friction, but our contributions to others are heart-warming and magnificent.
Without Creative Responsiveness there would be no human lead movements that transmute, transform and transfigure our culture and world.
What could you do right now to heal your life and circumstances by expressing Radiant Self Unifying Love with others? If you were anchored in your creative nature and understood the creative intent of others, would you engage them differently? If you possessed insight into attractions that would naturally bring out the best in you, would you develop them? If you could eliminate fear and reactions by seeing their source, would you become a bridge for, and to, abundant contributions? While most people slowly develop these conscious creative understandings, what if you could expand your perspective and develop tools that provided seven times the effectiveness in less than seven months? Keep reading if these conscious insights could benefit you. Your creative Self-Loving discovery process is entirely within your grasp.