MakingLove Real Everyone seeks to be loved. We also want to love others. The problem is that when our personality and defenses get in the way of love, our needs place demands on others to be what we want them to be to receive our love. On a creative level, personality frameworks are unnecessary. When
LearningTo ChooseLove — From The Wise Old Sage Commentaries Love Is A CommitmentCommitment: 1. A pledge or promise to engage or produce some result 2. A quality… To Creative Response We choose love by knowing ourselves, seeing clearly the similarities and differences of others, and realizing that we have a unique creative contribution to make.
Making Love Real — From The Wise Old Sage Commentaries Comparing Personality Love To Radiant Self Unifying Love Everyone seeks to be loved. We also want to love others. The problem is that when our personality and defenses get in the way of love, our needs place demands on others to be what we want
Falling In Love Is Bad The Big Picture Do you remember the first time you fell in love? They say that we never forget our first love. Why? Because it was sweet and felt so good? Or was it a desire to have some special person want you? Somehow this person showed up, and you
Making Love Real — From The Wise Old Sage Commentaries Comparing Personality Love To Radiant Self Unifying Love Everyone seeks to be loved. We also want to love others. The problem is that when our personality and defenses get in the way of love, our needs place demands on others to be what we want
Learning To Choose Love — From The Wise Old Sage Commentaries Love Is A Commitment To Creative Response We choose love by knowing ourselves, seeing clearly the similarities and differences of others, and realizing that we have a unique creative contribution to make. Love is a self-learning opportunity where we develop an appreciation of our creative
Choosing Love Is Creative Self-Healing — From The Wise Old Sage Commentaries Co-Creative Partnerships Loving others is a choice. It comes after careful considerationConsideration: 1. the second step in the Seven Steps of Enlightened Dating where… of our strengths and weaknesses, so there are no surprises. It comes after knowing that we can be co-creative
Intensity and Competition Blues — From The Wise Old Sage Commentaries Status Quo Contracts – Intellectual Level Falling in love with power and success is a great prelude to falling in love with a person of position or status and grit. Are we falling in love with our dream of power and success, or the
Excitement & Attachment Blues — From The Wise Old Sage Commentaries Unconscious Entanglements – Instinctive Level It is so easy to engage in these instinctive relationships. Placing all your attention on the potential partner can prompt a response, ‘Oh, this person likes me’ What you need to do then is get them to want
Anxiety & Comparison Blues When we seek ideals and they do not match our reality, it creates anxiety. This leads to a need to prove our self-importance by showing we are better. Idealization leads to comparisons where we fall in love with those who convince us of their goodness. — From The Wise Old Sage