Larry Byram 
Obstacles to Conscious Action(Part 3 of 3) The Mechanism of Action Discontent Why We Cannot Act Cleanly Non-effective actions are always efforts where we squeeze, crush or wiggle our way to shape the options of actions. In other parts of this program, we describe the cost of Parental Imprinting, Defenses, and Pretenses. Each of these …
Obstacles To Conscious Action(Part 2 of 3)Four Levels of Motives Understanding That Choices Are Expressed As Motives HA motives are a way to recognize how intent is compromised in the people with whom we interact. The four levels of motives reflect the degree of intent we have activated in ourselves. These levels reflect our degree …
Storytellers Storytellers are social activity integrators that use their voices to build resonant responses. By recognizing patterns internally and externally, they navigate social fields by directing knowing where the dissonance will grow or disperse, depending on their response or action. Storytellers mesmerize people with their capacity to use words to evoke creative responses. – …
Conscious Versus Co-Dependent Relationships The Yin and Yang of Co-Dependent Relationships Why is it that our relationships become challenging, adversarial and demanding? Why is it that the more we want a relationship, the more difficult it is? The simple answer is that our fears and desires activate our needs, which force us to negotiate an …
Embracing Our Creative Life Expression Awakening From Instinctive Relationship Human beings can best meet each other when we grow, discover, and engage each other’s creative being. Every person has a life energy signature that reflects their creative purpose. Most of us start our relationship journey at the Instinctive level where we hide creative qualities behind …
Wise Old Sage The Founder of Higher Alignment, a/k/a Larry Byram I am a relationship coach for many years, working to bring about better human engagement. My gift is understanding the diversity of our creative nature. In my early years, this was a distant, non-embodied concept or idea. It took some personal transmutation, transformation and …
Are Neutrality, Observation and Discrimination Enough? Investigators are the umpires that establish what truth we adopt and implement. Investigators seek balance between masculine and feminine, the past and the future (focusing on the present) and between what is incomplete versus what is whole. This is how they establish reflections of truth and use wisdom and …
Visionaries are driven by fear to inspire growth and wholeness. They are emotional integrators who use common ideals and aspirations to bring groups together in harmony. Visionaries do this by re-creating the qualities of others and mirroring their perspective back to them, so that they are seen. The challenge is to honor …
MakingLove Real Everyone seeks to be loved. We also want to love others. The problem is that when our personality and defenses get in the way of love, our needs place demands on others to be what we want them to be to receive our love. On a creative level, personality frameworks are unnecessary. When …
Inventors are the most open, creative beings able to embrace change. As the pace setters for technological, political and social adaptation, they are always on the firing line. Each is seeking to hold the largest possibility so they can be a spokesperson for the future and have a say in how things …